I've been looking forward to Thanksgiving break. Ever since the last parent/teacher conference night (where I was the teacher--the ones where I'm a parent are easy) I've felt like I really haven't been operating at 100% and I've been looking forward to a few days off to relax and re-energize before the holiday whirlwind leading up to Christmas.
I was feeling especially drained on Tuesday afternoon. As the school day drew to a close, I found myself thinking the thoughts that my mind drifts to when I'm especially exhausted/overhwelmed/cold/hungry (I'll spare you the grouchy details--even I find them tedious). I bolted out the door to start my Thanksgiving vacation as soon as my contracted day was over. I drove home through a rainstorm and reunited with The Mister and my girls. We then proceeded to have a lovely evening with my good friend Laura, her husband Jassen and her niece The Amazing Miss P at a local pizza place. While the little girls watched our pizzas being made, the adults toasted the upcoming holiday weekend, laughed and chatted.
Wednesday morning I awoke to The Milk Belly Princess crawling into bed with me. I tried to fall back asleep, but I kept waking up to the intermittent ringing of the phone. When I couldn't stand it anymore, I went downstairs (yes, I'm one of those people who can stand to have the phone AN ENTIRE FLOOR away from me) to see that I had a voicemail message. It was a friend from work, a lady I eat lunch with and really like, but have never had the chance to meet with socially outside of school. Her message was of the vague "give me a call when you get this" variety, the kind that any adult over the age of thirty knows to foreshadow some kind of bad news.
In my naive mind, I assumed the news would be of the "sad and bad but not directly related to me" variety. I called her back expecting to hear about the illness or death of a co-worker's parent, someone I'd never met who lived a few time zones away. As she told me the reason for her call, my blood went cold. A colleague and mutual friend of ours was involved in a terrible car accident on his way home from work on Tuesday. If you really want to, you can read about the accident here, but suffice to say, a 79 year old man made a grave error in judgement and ended up crashing head-on into his car causing serious injuries that necessitated an emergency helicopter ride to the nearest level one trauma center.
I cancelled the girls' craft night I had planned and Laura and I attended this vigil where the minister who addressed the crowd of over 500 told us we needed to pray for a miracle. So we did, and have every day since. It's still too early to tell the full extent of Jim's injuries, but everyone who knows him is hopeful that somehow he will be able to make a full recovery. If you're reading this, please keep Jim, his wife and two children (ages 10 and 7) in your prayers.
Standing on the football field at the vigil , I had some time to think. I thought about how much I take for granted. I thought about all of the arguments and petty injustices that I blow out of proportion on a daily basis. I thought about how most of what I complain about is pretty ridiculous, how in my world an insuffcient lunch (because I was too lazy to go to the grocery store the night before) and a mouthy kid (mine or someone else's) constitute "a bad day." I thought about how I want to savor all that I have so that I can appreciate it NOW, not when it is taken away from me.
After the vigil, Laura dropped me off at my house and I went to pick up my girls at my parents' house. I was greeted by a teary-eyed Little Tiger telling me that her "ear hurts more than its ever hurted before." Normally, this would have made my tired self grouchy. I would have felt like I, not she, was the victim as I either sent her off to bed with some children's Motrin or grudgingly took her with me to the ER. But I couldn't complain. If my biggest problem of the evening was a little girl with an earache, then I was pretty lucky. As we sat in the ER waiting to be seen, I rocked Little Tiger, and thanked God that we weren't there for something more serious.
The next day was Thanksgiving. We spent the better part of it as a family. The Mister, Little Tiger, The Milk Belly Princess and I went for a walk and explored the woods close to our house. The Milk Belly Princess was very excited to show off a "secret bridge" she discovered on a recent exploring trip with The Mister and was very proud that she could walk across it all by herself. 
Little Tiger, feeling more like herself after a good night's sleep and some medicine, was happy to turn the woods into her own personal gymnasium with the help of her daddy. 
As much as I knew that The Mister would have preferred this to be a "camera free" adventure, I just had to snap a couple of pictures so I can look back on this day one, five and ten years from now and remember how, at this moment, my family was perfect.